My Husband Wants Me to Pay for His Daughters Wedding Using My Daughters College Fund, I Had a Better Idea
When Greg casually suggested we raid my daughter Ava’s college fund to cover his daughter Becca’s lavish wedding, I nearly dropped my fork. The money in that account was sacred—David, Ava’s late father, had spent years pouring every spare dollar into it so she could attend college debt-free. I’d promised him on his deathbed that nothing would derail our girl’s dreams.
Blending families had never been easy. Six years ago, Ava was ten, grieving, and still clinging to the routines her father had built: pancake breakfasts, homework help, and quiet encouragement. Becca, already twenty, greeted us with frosty politeness that never thawed. Invitations to manicures, shopping trips—she declined them all. Around the house, she wielded silence like a blade, answering only when she needed something.
Last Wednesday, halfway through a tired midweek dinner, Greg cleared his throat. “Becca’s wedding is around the corner,” he said, folding his napkin with surgical precision. “I’ve put in ten grand, but we’re still short about thirty. Ava’s fund could bridge the gap—she’s only sixteen, and family helps family.”
The room froze. Ava, who’d been chatting about her chemistry test and SAT prep, went silent. Becca sat across from us, arms folded, waiting for me to capitulate. Greg leaned back, confident the decision was a formality. “College is never full price these days,” he added with a dismissive shrug.
I forced a measured breath. “So you’d use the money David left for his daughter’s education to pay for a party?” Greg’s smile faltered. Becca’s eyes narrowed but she said nothing. I told them I’d “look at the numbers” and left the table with my pulse hammering—but not before deciding on a plan.
Two days later, I asked them to meet me in the dining room. I laid two documents on the table. “First, a contract,” I said. “If you insist on using Ava’s fund, you’ll reimburse every cent within a year.” Greg’s face drained of color. Becca’s smirk flickered. They hadn’t expected terms.
“And the second?” Greg asked, voice brittle.
“Divorce papers,” I answered evenly. “If protecting Ava’s future means ending this marriage, I’m prepared.” The silence was deafening. Becca whispered, “You’re bluffing.” I met her gaze. “Try me.”
Greg sputtered about family and loyalty, but the mask had slipped; there was no plan to repay a dime. Two weeks later he moved out, scrambling to finance a scaled-down wedding with Becca’s mother. Ava and I weren’t invited. I hear it was a modest, heartfelt ceremony—what a wedding should be when it’s about love, not spectacle.
The night Greg left, Ava wrapped her arms around me and whispered, “Thank you for choosing me.” I hugged her tight. “I’ll always choose you,” I said. David’s fund remains untouched, quietly growing. One day Ava will use it to become anything she dreams: doctor, teacher, engineer—doors her father opened for her and I guarded with everything I had.